Let's talk about stereotypes!

Stereotypes are everywhere around us wether we like to admit that or not. What people call “stereotypes” are what scientists call “empirical generalizations,” and they are the foundation of scientific theory.The only problem with stereotypes and empirical generalizations is that they are not always true for all individual cases. They are generalizations, not invariant laws.

Now, The Belgians are very quickly stereotyped by people all over Europe, who make an incredible amount of jokes and satirical films about its peculiar political system, different languages, and gastronomy. The funny thing is that Belgian people play right along, and feed those stereotypes. As they are the subject of many jokes, they have developed a unique, self-deprecating, sense of humor.
As with any stereotype, those regarding Belgian people exist for a reason. However, to fully immerse themselves in the Belgian culture, foreigners must understand that Belgium goes far beyond its clichés.To help you tell fact from fiction about this small country, we will I will talk about the main clichés you might find, now that I came to know this country a bit better. As you will see, Belgian stereotypes fall into into three main categories: the country itself; its cuisine and the Belgian people.
Belgium is a small, flat and rainy country.
All true. With an area of only 30.600 km, Belgium is a small country. Its highest point is actually not high at all, at only 694m above sea-level, at the “signal de Botrange”. The fact that only a small part of the country exceeds 200m above sea-level explains why most of people in Flanders use bikes instead of cars to travel around their city.The flatness of the country is unlikely to phase foreigners. However, it's rainy weather will. Belgium has a maritime temperate climate with a high amount of rain in all seasons. With an average of 200 days of rain per year, it's difficult to paint Belgium as anything other than a rainy country. However, the rain doesn't stop the country's population and they happily go about their daily business whether there's rain or sunshine.
The Belgian political system is a mess.
Partly true. The Belgian political system is difficult to understand even for those who've lived in the country their whole lives.Belgium has three deciding authorities : the federal Government, the 'Three Language Communities' (Dutch, French and German) and the 'Three Regions' (Flanders, Wallonia and Brussels-Capital). Each region and community has its own government and responsibilities.The constant fight between Flanders and Wallonia or between the Flemish and French Communities are at the base of the current country political problems. In short, each one wants more decision-making power and because of their deep history in fighting, they've never found any compromise.
Belgians are fond of  beer, french fries and chocolate and eat them at every meal.
Partly true. Belgians have been brewing beer since the Middle Ages, so they've had plenty of time to perfect this craft. And nothing matches the beer better than delicious Belgian fries - served in a paper cone with mayonnaise, of course. They may not have them at every meal but the tradition is deeply anchored in people’s mind and tastes.Chocolate, and waffles are also part of the Belgian cuisine and have gained worldwide fame. These are not eaten at every meal, but are just really appreciated like tortillas in Spain or pastas in Italy.Despite all the land and food clichés, it's the Belgian population that has to put up with the most stereotypes.
In the mind of foreigners, the typical Belgian is as follows: they often say “une fois”, have a strong and heavy accent (whether speaking French or Flemish), are stupid and passionately in love with fries.
When it comes to Belgian people, the Dutch and the French have a lot to say with regards to language. The Belgian accent and expressions (especially in French) are very different from what is perceived to be the “right Dutch” or “right French”. This results in jokes and mockeries from the Dutch and the French towards the Belgians. However, if a Belgian person is talking to a Swiss, for example, there will be less differences in the French, resulting in a more peaceful co-existence.And while Belgian people are surely not stupid, they have a great, self-deprecating sense of humor. Another well-known (and possibly exaggerated) fact about Belgium is the rivalry between its French and Flemish communities. The argument goes that that French people are lazy, monolingual, football fans. In contrast, the Flemish are hard-working, bilingual and ambitious. So, cliché? Yes of course! It is obvious that classifying people because of their language is absurd and too simple! The problem is that the current political crisis is not helping to dispel these stereotypes.
For such a small country, Belgium sure has its fair share of stereotypes. The country is a source of great jokes, clichés, movies and of course articles but it is important for those moving to the country to be able to tell fact from fiction when it comes to Belgium's stereotypes. Otherwise, they risk not being able to fully integrate in their new home.
In conclusion, Belgians sure love their beers and fries, but most of all, they love sharing their peculiar culture with any foreigner who's willing to learn about them. 



My first days in Belgium


I remember my first days here in Belgium...it took me some time to get used to living here. First of all, the weather was killing me..I came from Romania where it was nice weather,I was wearing a short dress and flip flops and when I got here it felt like winter!!!I was so cold that on my first day I had to wear a cap...and I was looking at other girls,they were wearing skirts and t-shirts and I was like "Oh,my God!It's winter and it looks like they don't feel the cold" :))...But after a week I was already used to the weather here and now I am as comfortable as the Belgian girls.
Secondly, it was weird for me to notice that here people go clubbing in the street :))...in Romania you dress nicely, you go into a club and stay there...usually you sit at a table with your friends or dance, but you never leave the club until you decide to go home...maybe just during the summer if we go to a club by the pool, we sometimes hang out near the water and have a cocktail. But here, people are partying on the street and they don't care if it rains or if it's freezing cold, nobody stays inside; but that's fine by me cause that way there's plenty of room for me to dance :)
Another thing I noticed here is that students eat a lot of unhealthy food. And I mean A LOT!My first week I ate only fries and burgers and pasta and pizza and I thought I will explode!Thank God I discovered the cafeteria at my University and I can eat normal food there.

And there are a lot of other different things but I don't remember all of them now!Anyway, after the shock is over,it's really nice to live in a different way for a change!:-)

Living in a student home


The Erasmus experience gave me the opportunity to live in a student home and I must say...I looove it!:-) 
In my country I study in my own town so I didn't have to live in a student home...also,in my country student homes have rooms with 4 people so sometimes it can be kind of annoying...your roommate wants to sleep,you want to listen to music, or in the morning when you have to get ready for classes everyone wants to use the mirror ...:)))...but here I enjoy it pretty much.
There's a connection between the students living in the same residence that makes you feel as part of a family!Besides, you never get bored cause there is always something fun to do, we cook together,we organise movie nights or we just stay and chat till late at night.
Also,what I like is that there is always someone who can listen to you when you want to talk,or whenerver you feel bad,there's always someone who you can enjoy the happy moments with...
We celebrate birthdays together organising some parties and everybody has a lot of fun,we take pictures,we dance, we laugh at the way someone from another country dances...it's funny!
Next weekend we'll have both a Halloween party and a birthday party!I can't wait to have fun with other students,dress up and just have a good time!!

So, next week I'll post some pictures on my blog from the party!

Why Erasmus?

Wow, this is my first post and I must say, I am kinda excited :-)

So, I see myself everyday living this wonderful international experience, new for me in so may ways and I know I definetely did the right thing when I decided to be part of this experience. Why?
Well, I am a single child, I never had a brother or a sister but what I do have is a lot of friends...a lot!So I thought, if I make friends so easily why not make friends from all over the world?
Secondly, this was a great opportunity for me to develop myself in a new environment, all by my own, without my parents watching out for me...and I must say, I think I'm doing a great job! So, this helps me now with my self confidence and enables me to be more mature and independent.
Also,professional development is important for me and I think living and learning in another country will definetely improve my knowledge in the professional field. It's exciting to learn thing everyday from different people, hear different opinions and build one of my own.

Therefore, I try to make the most of this experience!